A SONG SAVES SEPARATION

A SONG SAVES SEPARATION
Some years later a song would perform an important function as well. In the middle of my performing career, I spent the majority of time on the road. Some people believe that absence makes the heart grow fonder. That may be true in the short term, but in my experience, too much absence creates problems. Such was the case in our marriage. In my naive way, I determined that flying home for a day would solve all our problems wherein we could discuss our challenges and move on to resolution. I soon discovered that the more I talked the worse things got. The more I tried to “fix” things, the greater the malfunction. At a certain point the thought came into my head: “Shut up! You’re making it worse.” I took that advice and with resignation, I walked toward the door. In doing so I passed the piano. I determined to sit down and sing a song that I thought might make a difference. It is the song for which she was named: Annie Laurie by Lady John Scott. Maxwelton’s braes are bonnie, where early fa’s the dew And twas there that Annie Laurie, gave me her promise true. Gave me her promise true, which ne’er forgot may be, And for bonnie Annie Laurie, I’d lay me doon and dee The music allowed me to convey the reality of my feelings that spoke to her heart which was crucial at the moment. The music allowed her to know the sincerity of my heart where words alone failed. Special songs between people are important as tokens for important bonding times. It can be very decisive in the maintenance of a strong relationship. Music has the power to communicate beyond verbal means.